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great piece Kelly. I always enjoy your writing. Lovely tribute, thanks

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Very nice, Kelly. Very nice.

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Well done kelly! I've not the knowledge you have of music but I do love me some Waymon Tisdale, Clapton, Betts. Wish I did know as much as you but then it's because you play undoubtedly . All I can say is when asked...you lose your hearing or your sight my answer has been neither but if down to it? Eyes. I can't imagine life without music.

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Thank you for the lovely tribute to DB. Of course thought of the Montreal annual trip.

Was on a short visit to family and shared with my brother. He lives about 20 miles away now. When he moves within the next year the priority will be his music. Favorite reading genre is rock history and memoirs. Younger than me but a smidge older than your Dad. Credits our cousin and moi with starting his music journey. We allowed him to listen to our records while we were away at college. Also stopped in to pick him up for a Richie Havens concert when he was learning to play. He celebrates Woodstock every year.

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Apr 20·edited Apr 20

Great article today. I enjoyed the Allman Brothers and Dickey's guitar work more the older I got. As a keyboard player I can relate to your joy of getting the Telecaster. It is probably similar to me moving up from my Farfisa to a Hammond. Music life was never the same.

If you enjoy guitarists, I suggest you check out Mike Slamer. He is one of my favorite guitarists that nobody knows about. He now produces movie and TV soundtracks in LA, but I think his best work was with City Boy. Here is one of my favorites.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WogHKsN1Gfw

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That was a very inspiring piece. Nice job!

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Kelly if you can listen to Roy Orbison’s Black and White. The guitar music is the best I’ve heard.

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Carry on, Kelly and add your emotional chords to his. He did this for followers just like you. Carry on and let his spirit and memory be a part of you. When life ends, it doesn't quit, it just makes us better people who follow. Don't worry...the music between your and your dad will never die. Music is life.

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Great job Kelly!

I have never met a soul who disliked Blue Sky. May be the closest song to perfection. A wonderful tune by one of the greatest American Bands.

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Beautiful work today.

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Beautifully written Kelly. You drew me in with your words and imagery you painted with them. And I can relate to how you feel about music. Every morning I wake up I have a song or a tune in my head. It's part of life to me. When my dad past many years ago for 3 months the music was gone. I did not hear it when I woke up. I guess you would call that depression. But it passed with time and came back.

I once told my son don't date someone who does not like music. I don't care what kind of music they like, but music has to move them and have a place in their lives. If not, I exaggerated, they may not have a soul.

When my son was 15 years old he woke one morning and I told him he was not going to school that day. He never missed school. My wife called the school and let them know he would not be there that day.

Later that day we took him to Joseph Beth Bookstore in Hyde Park. I had gotten 4 tickets for a book signing meet and greet and a photo op. It was Bruce Springsteen. When my son got his turn to get his photo with Bruce, he congratulated him on receiving the Presidential Medal of Freedom. Springsteen had received that honor a week before. I guess maybe because he was a young man and knew about the award Springsteen seemed touched by it. When Springsteen's handler started to walk up to move my son along, Springsteen without looking put his hand up and stopped her. He proceeded to talk to my son for a few minutes, a big smile on both of their faces and he let us take a few more photos. It was one of the best days of my life. The power of music comes in many forms.

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Apr 19·edited Apr 19

Beautiful tribute and writing Kelly! Daugherty writing gene ... "the Force with him is strong". And who knew about your musical talents, PD must be a jealous and proud papa.

Elizabeth Reed and Mountain Jam, my top two among dozens of others. RIP Dickey. :(

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Your dad was asking about running the other day and I made some comparisons to his golfing. I've never played an instrument, but as you are describing your plans, I am already sensing the endorphins you feel when you play. In many ways similar to running, I think. Enjoy!!!

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Kelly, you’ve definitely got the that writing gene. Excellent job today. And my condolences on your loss. Dicky Betts was very special, for sure. Lately we’ve lost so many music icons. I’m guess I’m especially aware since I’m not that much younger than Dicky. Everytime, I read of one of their passing, I remember a time and a song.

As for your yearly retreat with your dad, I truly understand how special this is for you. My son and I are true baseball fans, especially the Reds and, several years ago, we began a yearly sojourn to at least one MLB park, many times more than one, every year. This year, we are doing Atlanta and the two Florida teams. It has become something he and I truly look forward to doing together.

Oh yeah, after this trip, we’ll still have maybe 7 more to do. We love it.

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Well done Kelly ! Enjoy your new Tele. (didn't mean to make a rhyme)

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Excellent submission today, Sir! Full disclosure...I'm not a huge fan of The Allman Brothers, but I do appreciate Dickey Betts' talent.

As we speak, I have carts working at Fender and Sweetwater. I'm looking at either an American Vintage II 1951 Tele or 63. My skill level in no way matches this guitar. I hope to grow into the gear, and if I don't, I'll have fun playing! Good luck with yours.

I have enjoyed reading about the annual NC trip. You have a healthy view on anticipating future father/son sojourns while not casting an eye back to past trips. That can be a difficult task for those of us at 62, or older.

Last note: Record Store Day is tomorrow!

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