I doubt she’s unhappy
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It’s Stick to (No) Sports Tuesday. Let’s talk money. Cold, hard whipout. A journalism professor I had in college said if you wanted to know the truth about absolutely anything, follow the dollar. Whenever anyone says, “It’s not about the money,’’ it’s all about the money.
After winning $18 million just last week, golfer Viktor Hovland offered, “I don’t need a lot to be happy. I don’t need a lot to live within my means.”
Define a lot. Tell us the parameters of your Means.
In 1988, Chris Sabo was a rookie with the Reds. Sabes had grown up in a highly blue-collar part of Detroit. He won the NL Rookie of the Year Award that season, and was seen locally as the epitome of a Love of the Game Guy. Sabes drove a brown Ford Escort with six-figure miles on it.
Sabo was making the rookie minimum salary of $62,500 that year. He said to me at the All Star Game, “Sixty-two five. That’s good money.’’ Chris Sabo might have been the only athlete who said something about money that I believed.
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Baseball’s biggest story in the two weeks since Shohei Ohtani blew out his pitching elbow is not what effect that injury might have on Ohtani’s Ruth-ian two-way legacy. It’s about what the injury will cost him, money-wise.
NFL running backs are leaking money. Josh Jacobs and Saquon Barkley held out for more money and years. Both signed 1-year deals, because their teams didn’t want to pay guaranteed bucks for players with short careers, even by NFL standards. Joe Mixon took less money than he wanted, presumably because Mixon and /or his agent saw the writing on the running back wall. It wasn’t in green ink.
It’s like the late Dodgers GM Branch Rickey said to slugger Ralph Kiner, who wanted more money: “We finished last with you, we can do that without you.”
Money isn’t happiness, but it can help you down that yellow brick road. Pro jocks see it as a scoreboard. For many of them, it’s not the money, strictly speaking. It’s what the money represents. Their egos need to know they’re making top dollars. They reason, “I’m as good as that guy, why’s he making more than me?’’
It’s a fair point.
So tell me, Mobsters. What’s it about for you?
I never resent the money an athlete makes, because (1) It’s there (2) If someone offered me mega-millions to write TML, I probably wouldn’t protest and (3) It’s there. If it’s between a player having the money and an owner having it, I’ll go with the player.
You’d think a guy calling himself Johnny Thinwallet might have a higher opinion of money than most. I don’t. Really. For me, money represents time and freedom. Nothing more. Money that buys time and freedom is money well spent, and money I want. I retired at 64 1/2 because I had sufficient funds to do so. The currency of time spent with my family, my friends and myself cannot be bought.
There’s nothing more priceless than going on a two-week vacation and metaphorically never looking at your watch. Freedom is saying “I don’t do anything I don’t want to do’’ and practicing it.
If I made Hovland money, would I live any differently? Would you?
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I write TML for free (for now) because I love to write. If I charge, it won’t be for the money. OK, it will. But it will also be because I believe my time is worth something. But money can’t keep me engaged, it can’t impact my empathy, it can’t keep away the rain when I want to play golf or guarantee me perfect sunsets at the beach.
I could use it to buy a house in Montreat, NC, but not to buy the memories that make the place otherworldly special.
I wouldn’t live any differently if I suddenly found myself atop Mt. Cashmore.
You?
Viktor Hovland’s not bunking in a one-room cabin in the Appalachian foothills. But he does live in Stillwater, OK, which offers a decent approximation. Hovland also spent an entire PGA Tour season driving from tournament to tournament. Even if the vehicle was a Lexus.
He doesn’t need cash to be cool with life, and that’s cool. And I hope he lives that way.
Now, then. . .
BROWNING OR SIEMIAN? A backup QB is unimportant until he’s not. NFL teams that lose their starting QBs generally start losing lots of games immediately. The Bengals were flying high in 2015, then Andy Dalton got hurt. AJ McCarron was a very good backup, but he wasn’t Dalton, who was a longshot MVP candidate when he went down with a month left in the season.
In Jan. 2006, Carson Palmer fell to Kimo VonAxeMurderer in the wild card game. You know what happened next. And Jon Kitna was a decent stand-in.
Later today, the Bengals will tell us if Jake Browning is their #2 QB, or if Trevor Siemian has earned their trust. Browning has hit his last 10 throws this August and led two TD drives. Siemian has been a little less brilliant, but has starting experience.
It’s shocking, given the all-importance of a good quarterback, how few good backups there are in the NFL. Teams like to brag about their depth at other positions — see how we rotate our defensive front 7 guys in and out? — but when QB1 goes down, the answer is a question mark.
Jake Browning is the favorite to be QB2. He’ll be the most important least important player on the team.
IS THERE A COMPELLING REASON to keep running Andrew Abbott out there? I’d suggested in This Space yesterday and maybe a month ago that Abbott would at the very least be living in pitch-count jail. From what we saw Monday night, he’s beyond that. Shut him down.
It would be in line with the Club’s Just Say No deadline philosophy. Next year won that discussion, so why would you risk a kid’s arm this year?
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It wouldn’t mean the Reds are tossing in the towel, because Abbott has been pitching with the yellow light on for more than a few starts already. It’d mean they’re not going to risk a prime part of their future on a present they chose not to help.
Yeah?
THOSE DARNED KIDS. . . Rams QB Matt Stafford, who’s all of 35, can’t relate to his young teammates, according to his wife. Yahoo:
Stafford's wife Kelly said on her podcast, "The Morning After With Kelly Stafford," her husband is having a difficult time forming relationships with the new people.
"It’s kind of crazy. So Matthew’s been in the league a long time. He’s like, 'The difference in the locker room has changed so significantly.' They have a lot of rookies on their team, they’re very young," Kelly Stafford said. "But he’s like, 'I feel like I can’t connect. In the old days you’d come out of practice, you’d shower, and people would be playing cards, people would be interacting. Who knows what they're doing, but they're doing something together.
"But now they get out of practice, and meetings during training camp, and they go straight to their phones," Kelly Stafford said.
Yeah, like, ain’t that the, like, truth?
TUNE O’ THE DAY. . . Brooooce fans, what’s your favorite Springsteen album? I’ll bet it’s not Tunnel of Love. That’s mine. Full of Doc tunes, or at least tunes that appeal to Doc’s formidable melancholy.
(Don’t you hate those people who refer to themselves in that vague, third-person way when they’re pretending to be humble?)
One Step Up is wonderful, Walk Like a Man is better than that. Tougher Than the Rest. And this one is right up there.
I want all the time, all that heaven will allow.
First chapter in a fascinating read: the Psychology of Money, Morgan Housel, is a chapter called "No One's Crazy. In short, it states the obvious: people from different generations, raised by different parents, who earned different incomes and held different values, in different parts of the world, born into different economies, with different job markets, with different incentives and different degrees of luck learn very different lessons. So all of us live life anchored to a different set of views and beliefs about money and how it works, that will literally differ from everyone else's. What seems crazy to you may make lots of sense to me, and vice versa. But in reality, neither of us is crazy.
I grew up in poverty, single-parent home, managed to sneak into a rich priviledged school because I had a more intelligent older brother and an entire roster of wealthy donors who put poor kids like me through their alma mater. I was surrounded by opulence, parking my buick void of a painted hood or roof next to newer BMWs. I lived in utter jealousy. Always having cash for lunch, full tanks of gas, huge houses. Lot of those kids didn't need to incur major debt for higher secondary education either. I took on a mortgage worth of debt, because I was raised to believe good school means good job, good life for family. But in actuality, I was investing and training to be someone's asset, and good money would come at the expense of time with my family, for which I'm even working. So for me, besides the health of my family and myself, the pursuit of wealth is greater than literally anything else.
Anyone who says money can't solve all your problems has never lived without it. It's a lot easier being depressed with a full belly and no creditors than it is starving and downing in debt. I started my own business, took the ultimate risk, because I finally learned that under America's current model, W-2 employees aren't meant to have anything nice unless they're willing to amass debt and trade all of their time for money, and for over two decades, I did that. Nice vaca? Put it on the credit card, we'll live low after and pay it off in half a year. We need a car - can't drive something unsafe, so gotta take out a loan to get something nicer, something newer. Need bigger house to accomodate growing family. It's all a system designed to trap your ass into W-2 employment, and it works like a charm.
I had to start my own business because everything from our laws to our tax codes favor business owners and corporations, whereas the individual is meant to live in debt, working 50-60 hr weeks, taking orders from bosses needing you to adopt this career as a lifestyle like they have, living HUSTLE CULTURE, all so that they can, maybe retire by the time they're 65, or dead. Our parents grew up living this religiously. My generation appears to be a mixed bag on it. Gen Z has seen enough it appears. There's hope.
You've seen my reactions here when Mixon takes a pay cut - it physically makes me sick. Yes, he'd be cut without it, but I don't think we appreciate just what he's sacrificing, for a game that's literally killing him. Doc said it best, money affords time and freedom. But it also offers your offspring a safer path through the jungle. For me, life is way too short to spend so much of it doing something that makes you unhappy, for a wage that's taxed at nearly 40% in some cases, all to build someone else's generational wealth, who won't be trading their time for money for much longer even if they still are now.
I don't want to spend my existence chasing dollars, but in America, we have prioritized dollars over individuals. It has it pros, it arguably has way more cons. And not everyone shares in today's gains. At the root of all our problems here - wealth inequality can explain virtually everything. Crime is directly proportional to poverty.
For me, money is vitality. If you don't agree, no worries, you're not crazy. But iMO we should prioritize it accordingly, we should talk about it more, as much as we do the weather, because treating money like a taboo topic only favors the people who have all of it.
You nailed it. As usual. If I had a few more million dollars, I would buy a nice house near the beach on the Gulf of Mexico and big nice boat. Truth be told, I could do it right now. But it would be a bad investment since I would not be down there much. I have two grandkids here that I cherish and I have to take care of a lot of the time. I retired at 65 because I was fortunate to be able to do so. I would be very happy to still be working if my lovely wife was still alive. I would trade every single dollar of my savings to have her back. Take time for family and count your blessings every day.